When I was pregnant, both with my first son, Jimmy and with my second, Noah, I prayed every night for God to give me a boy. Of course when people asked “Do you want a boy or a girl?” I gave the standard answer: “As long as it’s healthy, it doesn’t matter.” But it did matter. Secretly, I wished for a boy.
I never have liked dolls, or playing house, so I cringed at the thought of having a little girl and attending a tea party. I’d much rather dig for worms and go fishing. Imagine my joy when God gave me a boy – both times. I was so thrilled! I immediately set about planning the many fun, (outdoor!), adventures we’d have.
Noah was such a pretty little boy, for the longest time, everyone thought he was a girl. I rarely dressed him in anything but blue for the first two years of his life to make it clear that yes, he’s a boy. But on his first Easter, shortly after his first birthday, I couldn’t resist dressing him and Jimmy up in white suits. They looked so lovely.
I took a few pictures and then went to warm the car up before leaving for church. My husband, Jim, was getting dressed in the bedroom right next to them, so I thought nothing of leaving the boys in the living room, since I would only be away for a couple of minutes.
I was gone for no more than five minutes.
What do you think?
When I returned, to my horror, I found Noah sitting in the middle of a huge potted plant, holding our very hairy cat down on his lap, pouring pancake syrup all over himself and the cat, and, naturally, the wood floor beneath the plant.
There was syrup, potting soil, and cat hair everywhere!
With only fifteen minutes before church started, there was no way I’d be able to clean him up, (never mind Niles, the cat), in time to make it to services. Indeed, it took about an hour to bathe Noah, and then another two hours, (and many scratches), to get Niles looking halfway normal again. Add about a week to remove the syrup from the grooves in the wood floor. Needless to say, Noah missed his first Easter Sunday service.
I’m sure that wasn’t the first time I wished God would’ve given me girls, but after nearly thirteen years of many such moments, I can’t imagine life would be that much different with girls. I would’ve only had to endure changing pretend poopy diapers on baby dolls, and I would’ve missed seeing the joy on my boys’ faces when they caught their first fish.
I am so grateful for my boys, syrup, cat hair, and all!
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These carrots are one of Jimmy and Noah’s favorites. They’re great for Easter dinner, though they can be made any time, and it’s a good way to sneak veggies into your children if they have a sweet tooth. The best part about it is that you can make these two ways, depending on whether you have a couple of hours or just a few minutes!
Deanna’s Candy Carrots
Slow cooking version:
- 1 small bag baby carrots, rinsed
- 1 Tbs. each: cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, ground cloves
- ¼ cup Karo syrup
- 1/3 cup brown sugar
- 1 tsp. vanilla
- ¼ cup water
Combine all in heavy saucepan and cook on medium-low heat for ½ hour. Turn heat down to simmer and cook for 1 hour, or until carrots are tender-crisp.
Quick cooking version:
- 2 cans Del Monte sliced carrots, (don’t drain)
- 1 Tbs. each: cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, ground cloves
- ¼ cup Karo syrup
- 1/3 cup brown sugar
- 1 tsp. vanilla
Combine all in heavy saucepan and cook on medium-low heat for about 15 minutes. Can be simmered up to an hour for more flavor infusion.


February 27, 2010 at 7:22 pm
Deanna,
That is such a funny story! I can just imagine your son’s mind, hmmm… I think it would be fun to sit in the plant with the cat and pour syrup over everything. Oh my goodness that is classic! What a sticky mess! I don’t envy you having to clean the cat!! I love his name, Niles – that wouldn’t happen to be from Frasier, would it – his brother, Niles? I love that show.
The carrot recipe looks great. My kids LOVE carrots, and I never thought to put the spices on them – yummy idea. My son is allergic to corn syrup, but we will just replace with agave. The brown sugar and vanilla are nice additions, too! Perfect Easter treat!
February 27, 2010 at 7:23 pm
Oh, and I forgot to add – I love the pictures of your boys!
February 27, 2010 at 7:34 pm
It was quite an experience Anne, and certainly not the last such antic. I only wish I would’ve written everything down from the minute they were born.
The cat showed up at our doorstep just a few months after we moved in, and was only a few months old himself. I was wollering with him and Jimmy in the floor, (Jimmy was 2), trying to decide on a name when Jimmy began making “mewing” sounds, but it came out sounding like “niles”, so that’s what we called him. Everyone thinks it came from Frazier. I loved that show though.
Thanks for stopping by and I hope the carrots are good with the agave instead of brown sugar. Enjoy!
February 27, 2010 at 7:55 pm
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February 28, 2010 at 10:48 am
Deanna – I’m so glad Anne mentioned this post to me – this is hilarious and so much like things that happen in our house! i can picture it so vividly!!! he he. What can i say about boys and girls – i have one of each and they’re so similar and yet so very different. They’re all little miracles and for the record, my girl would be every bit (if not more) likely to pour syrup on the cat as my boy
February 28, 2010 at 12:03 pm
Thanks for reading PJ, and I’m glad you enjoyed the story. I have heard, more than once, that girls can be worse than boys, so maybe I really lucked out?
Either way, having children is certainly not boring!
February 28, 2010 at 5:16 pm
I’ve never tried syrup on cat. I usually prefer ketchup. That recipe…I can smell it now. It must smell heavenly.
February 28, 2010 at 7:49 pm
Oh you must try syrup Ronda – so much sweeter than ketchup.
Yep, the carrots do usually infuse the kitchen with that warming cinnamon scent. Cinnamon is one of my favorite smells, so we make these a lot.
February 28, 2010 at 5:36 pm
Loved that story! The poor cat!
When my son was 3 he decided to wax the kitchen floor to help me…a whole bottle in a 4ft square section. Then he slipped and banged his face into the table. I couldn’t take him out of the house for two weeks for fear that someone would think I beat him!
Those carrots look yummy! I never thought to add spices.
February 28, 2010 at 7:53 pm
Oh my gosh Laura, you must’ve been freaking out. I would’ve been. Jimmy was a very clumsy baby and had a lot of bumps and bruises. We did get some strange looks when we had him out in public. The poor fellow did look like he’d been beat to within an inch of his life.
Let me know how you like the carrots.
And by the way everybody, if you don’t care for vanilla, (which I can’t even begin to imagine), try almond extract. It works just as well and gives the carrots a whole different flavor, though still sweet. I add crushed pecans after I get the boys’ servings out of the pot, (they’re weird and don’t like nuts), but crushed almonds is good too, whether you use vanilla or almond extract.
March 2, 2010 at 9:31 am
What a great story. I can picture it all-the white suit covered in soil, syrup and cat hair! I’m still glad you got your boys and know you are too. And the recipe sounds yummy. Thank you.
You know, I got three girls and not a prissy one in the bunch. They liked Ninja Turtles and playing outside in the woods. Go figure. And they grew into beautiful women, too! How lucky we are with our darling kids.
March 2, 2010 at 3:53 pm
That does surprise me Dorraine – that none of your girls were, or are, prissy, you being such a girly-girl yourself.
Yes, we are very lucky to have been granted the blessing of having these children in our lives for a while. Sometimes I just have to remind myself of that.
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